today started out in hell.
I understand that it's late in the year...school is almost over. It's hard to get yourself up and go to school. Been there, done that.
but why must we go through this every. single. morning?
Both boys didn't want to go.....as usual. the younger one didn't
"feel good". the older one didn't do his homework, so he didn't want to go at all. asked last night if he could stay home and I said "no, you had all weekend to do your homework. Sounds like a personal problem if you decided not to do it."
so this morning, he just decides he's not going.
just like that.
to hell with me and what I say,
He aint goin.
Just blatantly defied me.
so, there will be "consequences" for his actions.
He hid out in his room all day today.
But dad will be home soon.
then the shit will hit the fan.
Oh well,......that's what he gets.
I can't stand that the boys are bigger than me. what can I really do to them? I can't really spank them anymore...so I have to hit them where it hurts. their "stuff". no, that THAT stuff!!! their things, their freedom to go places with their friends.
sorrrreeeeeeee. No more of that.
that new phone? It's all mine buddy.
I've always wanted a new phone.
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I bet your kids would listen to you if they knew they had to, and if you really meant it. I would stand up to my boys, get in their faces and tell them to get in their freaking room and they did. One time I thought Brice was going to kill Kekoa, they were 16 & 17 and I grabbed Brice by his tee shirt inches before he grabbed Kekoa, I wrapped my arms around him and screamed at Kekoa to run. Brice could have gotten loose, but he didn't. It's all about the respect, not the size, and those boys really respect you.
But damn, he just flat out didn't listen? He needs an ass whooping! Or a new home for his phone, which, it sounds like it found one! LOL
I'm first, I'm first, ha ha ha ha. I've been checking my freaking reader all damn day!!!!!!
Tell that boy his Uncle Tranny will come to Ohio and get him back into line! He may be taller than me, but I know I weigh more than he does.
How's that new phone?... :)
Love You!!!
XOXOXOXOXOXO
Here's what I would do. Get yourself up and ready and if they don't go to school, drive yourself there and walk right into the office. Tell the assistant principal that there is nothing wrong with (insert childs name here) and they just are being lazy and didn't want to come to school today. I promise you that will embarrass your kid so much he'll never do that again. Also, the school might send a truant officer type to your house. The school gets funding based on attendance, they will work with you!
enjoy the new phone!!
Way to go. I find that it's their things that matter most to them so I start with the computer and the phone. I've also been known to make her just hang out with me, even if I'm doing something boring. It's just torture!
I like what Fightin' Mary said! Great idea.
When Chris was in third grade, he stole a book from the school library and told his mom the teacher gave it to him. She took him to school the next day, in her robe, curlers, and slippers and made him return the book. He said he NEVER stole anything again, the rest of his life!
Agree with what Mary says. Either go to school OR call the school and say he just won't come in. Don't cover for him and let him take the consequences, he will start going to school and not playing games (I hope!). Going to school isn't an option!
Enjoy your new phone. Can't wait to hear what dad says...;)
Sounds like they're both testing your boundaries. Sometimes kids need a reminder that parents may be their friends, but they're STILL their parents. Hahaha, sounds like you taught him a lesson by confiscating his phone... go mom!
Seriously?? I would drag his butt down to where I stood or get a chair and beat him on his head. No way would he make the decision to just not go to school.
I really need to proof read...
let's try this again
When GB was under stress with school and his dyslexia it got so bad (he reacted with stomach pains and nausea) and was out for a week, his favorite teacher called and we talked about it. He got a feeling for what GB was going thru and said he would talk to him. Sometimes it takes someone beside parents to listen and understand.
Whenever I have a problem with the lost boys it was because no one is really listening to them. Sometimes it takes a long time and you'll get a moment of truth and it all makes sense.
I really have no idea here from a distance but take it for what it is worth :-)
btw - did you get a chance to read The Shut-Down Learner?
my daughter was complaining this am as well about 'not feeling well'. i sent her anyhow and said that if it gets worse to call me. i got a phone call alright, from her in tears because the teacher made her call me to tell me that she did not do her homework and that she has a detention tomorrow. now, what in hell use did it do to call me !?? ah....
Oh gawd . . . sounds like mondays around here too.
Those boys and their deep voices and 6-foot frames think they can get away with anything.
Hey . . . i passed along an award for ya if you want to come by and pick it up :)
Holy cow thank goodness I don't have teenagers...yet.
well, the Kid hid out in his room all day long...and is still there as a matter of fact. His dad got home and asked if he was at track practice(dad is a coach!) and I said No, he didn't go to school today. yada yada, dad went to his room and took his phone. he's grounded for a week, and his Germany trip might be in jeopardy. soooooo, hes still pouting in is room. life's touch, aint it?
Beth...pls read and listenc arefully.
i was exactly like your youngest.
i missed so much school in high school they kicked me out a month before grad. that has haunted me forever.
please nip this is the bud before it gets out of hand, my parents gave up and left it up to me.
not only did they fail me, but i failed myself by not giving a shit.
boy do i give a shit now!
trust me,it will only get worse over time.
Kids!
Who needs 'em?
=)
Go "on strike" from your job!
They'll learn about consequences...
Enjoy your new phone!
THIS is why I'm not having kids - Dogs? It's still LEGAL to put them in their kennels all day when they don't listen - ha ha!!
And - we absolutely should get together - maybe lunch someday? I've got all the time in the world right now - what, with being unemployed!! haha!!
OH NO HE DIDN'T! I always say they may be taller, but they aren't ever going to be meaner. Good going. Defiance needs to be uncomfortable!
OH NO HE DIDN'T! I always say they may be taller, but they aren't ever going to be meaner. Good going. Defiance needs to be uncomfortable!
I always resort to taking their stuff. But you know what, they have some cool stuff. Better than my stuff. Well, now it's my stuff, which is even better.
lol, Beth.. the stuff thing toootally got me...
But I understand, loud and clear.
Solidarity here.
God almighty, how utterly boring. Honestly.
Hope you enjoy your new phone.
It happens sooner or later.. We never let our kids stay home unless they were visibly sick. Obeying Mom was a must, as I always would side with my wife- in a show of unity. "Wait till your father gets home" was enough to convince them to do anything!
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