This photo depicts what I'm feeling today.
Gray and gloomy.
I don't like to be played with.
I don't like to play games.
I don't like lowering myself to someone else's level in order to inflict revenge.
I don't like to play games with other people.
I don't like memories invading my space.
I don't like people who have an "agenda".
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Someone who hurt me terribly has crawled back into my life...and I've let them.
And I actually contemplated "getting even" with them.
But that's just not "me"....I see that I just. can't. do. it.
So I've decided to take the "high road" and behave accordingly.
I wish nothing but peace and happiness for this person, because feelings just don't disappear. they may fade over time, but some little crumb is still on the underbelly of your life.
I will accept apologies and will extend forgiveness with my whole heart.
I will protect what is mine from any invader who tries to steal it.
I will remember to live and love every day that I am here.
I will love the people that I love with my whole heart and soul.
I will cut out any toxic people who try to infect me with their sickness.
I will be strong.
20 comments:
Oh TrannyBeth -
I hope you can find the strength/wisdom to finally get this person out of your life completely. From what I can tell it's been nothing but bad drama since "Hello".
Remember, when we associate with losers it brings US down to their level. TRUST ME, I know this from too many personal experiences to count.
I'm here for you if you need me.
Love & Great Big Trannyhugs...
XOXOXOXOXOXOXO
Tranny: thanks Baby....I can and will do this.
this is the better idea for sure -
"I will cut out any toxic people who try to infect me with their sickness."
I've started doing this as well, and in the simplest of ways, by culling people on my Facebook list of friends that I probably never should have become friends with in the first place. Keep the positive attitude.
Dog: you think so? I trust your opinion, ya know...
nighttime: I've done a little bit of that...i need to cut my FB list wayyyyy down...just hard to hit that delete button, ya kow?
remeber leopards don't change their spots..
What to do, what to do..?
I am not going to lie... now that this person is in your life, is there any way you can push them back 'out' of your life??
The worry of having someone like that back in your life, in any capacity is worrying. It is for me, to have 'toxins' back into my life, and I do feel that they take away from the general pleasure I get from living.
The mention of a name or any acknowledgement of their presence in my life again, is a drain. I hope that you can be stronger than me and keep to your strength.
snugs: girrrrl, you are so right.
mark: just the mention of this person's name, and I break out in a sweat...heart beats faster...i don't like it. I don't like feeling RAGE against another person...you and I will be strong together, ok?
It is good you realize you allow this, not them.
It is good you can forgive, but not forget.
It is good you know you can control the situation as it goes forward.
Yes please be strong you don't need that in your life...remember the best predictor of the future is the past...
These type of people never change....
Hubby always says he can forgive, but he can't forget. I personally want a Fairy Godmother to jettison these people from our lives to some remote island... think the one in "Lost" will be available shortly?
You're not alone in the feelings - limit your contact from the poisonous people. All the other folks are right - the leopard won't change, history will repeat itself. Peaceful wishes, big hugs.
Good.
And when it's tough and it sucks lean on us because we love you.
Hey, I could have written this post!
Here's to being strong. :)
So, you're taking my advice, right??? Cause if not, I'll have to kick your ass.
Bean: I ALWAYS take your advice and yes I am...all the way baby...all. the. way. XOXOX
Dudette - hit the FB button, block the number from texts, don't answer and delete w/out playing phone messages- cut every single part of that toxin out of your life as if you were removing a cancer. If it were cancer you wouldn't leave some of it there- you would get rid of it all. You would slam the door on letting those poison wellness threatening cells back into your body. Same here
'nuff said
Its always tougher to take the high road, but in the long run you'll be better off...revenge can be so tempting though...feels good in the moment...but its effects can last forever...let wisdom be your guide...good luck with this..have a great weekend..I hope it brightens up..
I am about to cut more people off my facebook. Ugh their negative attitude just brings me down!
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